NACE Virtual Book Club - Book #2 Recording-NACE Virtual Book Club

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Lisa Hopkinsberry moderated NACE’s book club discussion of Priya Parker’s <em>The Art of Gathering</em>, inviting catering and event professionals to consider how to make gatherings more purposeful and meaningful.

Key themes included defining a clear purpose rather than hosting events simply for networking; rethinking familiar traditions and “sacred cows,” such as routine housekeeping, icebreakers, name tags, and meeting formats; and creating space for thoughtful debate and authentic connection. Participants discussed how hosts can encourage people to bring their “best selves,” prepare guests to participate, and use creative prompts to spark conversation.

The group also explored inclusion and “generous exclusion”—inviting the right people for a gathering’s purpose and choosing a group size that allows everyone to contribute. Examples included reserving an executive breakfast for senior representatives, offering young supporters a more affordable alternative to a gala, and using playful event-themed name tags.

Participants emphasized that a gathering’s location and overall experience should support its purpose, and that successful events are largely shaped by thoughtful preparation. Hopkinsberry closed by affirming the value of event professionals’ work: meaningful gatherings require skill, intention, and care.

Keywords

gathering purpose

event planning

Priya Parker

The Art of Gathering

inclusive events

meaningful connections

thoughtful preparation

event professionals

creative hospitality